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The Perfect Christmas Gift for a Child
In my last blog, What do Children Really Want for Christmas? I mentioned that what children of separated parents want most is for their mum and dad to get on and not fight. Of course, most children also like to get things. The perfect Christmas gift for a child will...
Boundary Disputes and Mediation
Boundary disputes Boundary disputes and mediation may, at first glance, seem like an oxymoron. "Mediation is only for people who get on, or whose disagreements are minor isn't it?" "Surely, boundary disputes are simply about the law?" "And anyway, me and my neighbour...
What do Children Really Want for Christmas?
Confession #1 What do children really want for Christmas? It's confession time - I have no idea what gadgets, toys or games kids are into at the moment. But I do know what children don't want. They don't want their mum and dad to argue, especially not about them. They...
Finding the Right Family Mediator
Finding the right family mediator doesn't have to be like looking for a needle in a haystack. But there's a lot to deal with when going through separation and divorce. Children need stability and reassurance, you may need to find somewhere to live, keep paying the...
Will an Amicable Separation Get You What You Need?
Amicable separation There are some going through relationship breakdown who believe that an amicable separation would mean they wouldn't get what they want. It would involve some sort of touchy-feely approach. That would mean they wouldn't be able to make the other...
Negotiating? Know Your BATNA and WATNA or Understand the Consequences
BATNA and WATNA A common problem we see in disputes is a party not knowing what their BATNA and WATNA is. By that we mean their best alternative to a negotiated agreement (BATNA) and their worst alternative to a negotiated agreement (WATNA). They have no idea what...
Mediating Online. From Your Own Home or Workplace
You want to mediate Mediating online could be for you if your relationship has broken down. You need to sort things out. There are parenting and financial arrangements to make. You want a mediator to help because you've heard that it is a better and less expensive...
What Goes Into a Parenting Plan?
As promised in A Parenting Plan is a Good Thing, Right? I'm now going to look at what typically goes into a parenting plan. Bear in mind though that a parenting plan is a personal thing and a mediator will help you to create a plan that suits your family....
Family Courts: If Their Decisions Are Inevitable Why Go There, If Their Decisions Are Unpredictable, Why Go There? Guest blog by Marguerite Picard
Court outcomes range from unpredictable to inevitable One of the favourite hobbies of family lawyers is to discuss their court cases. And nothing makes for more excitement than when the court ‘gets it wrong’. Unsurprisingly, one lawyer or the other often thinks that...